I’ve been away for too long, the list of excuses is endless but nothing justifies when it comes to staying away from something you love. Life has been pretty hectic for me but let me share this every day one or two thoughts used to strike me for which I have been eager to write about. Again, the never ending long day kept me from writing. Anyway I am back and I hope this time I continue for good. I’ve been thinking a lot lately(which is not new 😛 ), about how the world is moving and where it is heading. On the one hand the growing attempts of terrorists attacks and the European crisis that has been happening made me sad and on the contrary, I saw a TED video yesterday addressed by President of Kirabati, his country is most likely to be under water in upcoming few years as a result of change in climate. To be honest I watched that 21 minute long video and I was taken aback by how they haven’t given up hope and at the same time they are ready for all the troubles that are on their way.
If you live for people’s acceptance you will die from their rejection!
I came across this quote a while back and it struck me how true this really is. I have this trait where I really get tough and serious, when it comes down to getting things done and because of that solemn reason I was being a bit authoritative at that time. Somebody told me afterwards, you’re dominating but then for a reason I know I am not (of course I know myself at least this much to differentiate what I am and what I am not) . I apologized to that person and then I thought of clarifying that thing and it all came down to me why do I want to do that? The answer was really simple because I wanted that person to approve of me. In some ways or the other most of the people love hearing good things about them, in short they love to hear opinions from other which actually shows that they are conscious about what other people might think of them.